Insights gained within a four hour stay in the animal ER.
Just like a dog comes in and sniffs out the environment, maybe we might be reminded to do the same. When in doubt, check it as my chaplain supervisor always reminded me.
Not everyone is in a mood to chit chat to pass the time away or to self soothe.
If one is, the engaging will hopefully resemble more of a dialogue, rather than a monologue.
After the vet has spoken to the pet owner, please do not become the interloper and desire more information. Most likely what was heard is being processed so that an informed decision may be made.
If advice is not being asked for, please heed the NO FLY ZONE. No further explanation required on this one.
Asking permission to touch an animal is wise or you might not be the only one leaving the office bandaged up.
Please potty your dog before you enter if possible. During our stay we witnessed a dog almost poop on the shoe of another patron and then he finished it off by marking the counter as his territory. Every dog who checked out after with their owner, had to sniff and we were taking bets on who might add their mark as well?! Understanding that sh*t happens for sure sometimes, literally.
Compassion is everything. We witnessed a gorgeous German Shepherd on a gurney being wheeled into a private room where his family gathered to say good-bye. The techs who were assisting offered them privacy, compassion and time. They exited the building with their heads held down, eyes red, wiping away tears. Their body language clearly expressing please just allow us to leave and don’t say anything. I was so grateful everyone did just that and respected their need for a quick departure after a painful and difficult good-bye.
Each animal who greeted their people after the techs had taken them for their procedure was ecstatic. The moment of recognition was palpable and their entire being lit up whether they had been gone for a few minutes or longer.
The moment the appointment had been completed, the door, exit was the only place the animals desired to find. Why hang around any longer? There are treats, sniffs and a ride home with their noses out the window to look forward to. Leaving everything that had occurred in the past, and ready to roll in this present moment.
Checking in periodically with us as our stay was very, very long, to let us know how our dog, Zuke, was holding up, what they were finding out etc. This was deeply appreciated. Helping our anxiety to be kept at about a five rather than a full blown ten or higher. Realizing that communication no matter what we find ourselves immersed within is vital. It most often can help alleviate rather than escalate.
Each of these items parallels the human experience in such profound ways. An animal does not desire to be anything utter than who he/she is. Growing and trusting to become more fully who they are.
Zuke is asking us to be attentive to him at age fourteen plus and he promises to give us cues along the way as to how much longer he desires to remain earth side. We did this with our last dog, Jordan, and she made it abundantly clear within a twenty-four hour time frame when she was ready for her next adventure. I simply cannot imagine navigating life without the privilege and honor of animal companions and their unconditional love. I know for sure I am pre-grieving and it’s painful, yet it is encouraging me to remain vigilant and in step with Zuke and his wishes, not mine. We are experiencing good days and some not so much, yet I’m intentionally choosing to not miss a moment of it. Deepest of sighs…
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